In your heart you'll know he is not the guy you really want to be with, he probably doesn't have the major characteristics or personality traits that you are looking for, but you think if you don't like him too much, then you won't get hurt. One of the biggest theories people have lived by is; the one who cares too much, will end up getting hurt, or the one who cares less has the power in the relationship.
That's no way to live your life, what's the point of being with someone if you're not gonna love them with your all and give them your all, it will be a waste of your time and the one whom your with. Getting hurt is inevitable, if you live your life being afraid to get hurt, you will never live, life is spontaneous, that's what makes it awesome.Never settle for something that is good, when you could have something that is great!
You should pick 5 qualities that you look for in a man/woman and don't settle until you get them, life is too short to spend it with someone you don't really love. If through the bad times, you have to question, do i really love this person? then you don't really love them. Love is such a beautiful and great feeling, when you know you know, it is not something that you have to question, if it is then you probably weren't meant to be.
Too many people settle for just good enough, spend life with someone whom you love perfectly, even with all the imperfections, there is such a thing called the "perfect love" you will know when you've found the right one for you. The whole settling for less also comes from the fear of being alone, some people hate being alone, so they'll be with anyone who will be with them, they always have to be in a relationship.
No judgments here, we were made for each other, it cracks me up sometimes when women are like, " i don't need a man, I'm fine all by myself", stop lying, yes you do. It is nothing to be ashamed about, If you don't need one, then you are going against the natural way of how things should be. God made Adam and then he made Eve, so Adam wouldn't be alone, it's natural to want a man. But it is good to wait for the right one, never settle for good enough, because later down you will regret it.
