Is the theory of always being attached to your first love or the first person who took your virginity true? Or is it just a misconception that we have all fooled ourselves into believing. I personally think love has no rules, maybe you will forever be attached and maybe you won't. It all depends on the profound effect that person had on your life. Does it mean that because I was completely and utterly in love with my first love, that nobody else could compare to that, I don't think so.
We have all been jealous at some point in our lives because of our partners past, why? because you love them and you want to be the first for them at everything. Problem with that is, 9/10 times you won't be and you just have to deal with that. We have to remember that the past is exactly what it is, the past, it's a reason whomever they were with never made it to their future. Being the first doesn't mean being the best, We fail to realize that sometimes.
Instead of getting jealous about what your partner shared with an ex, focus on your relationship, focus on being the best, because no matter how much you bitch about his past, it will never change. Be the best partner he has ever had, you won't be his first but dammnit you'll be the last, you'll be the one that he sticks with, you'll be the one that he loves and cares about. We are humans and we are made of flesh and blood, we fall weak to temptation sometimes and that ugly green eyed monster comes up, but the most valuable thing you can do is to trump it before it rares its ugly head too far, to the point that it ruins your relationship.
Facebook stalking her and going through all her pics, trying to find every reason that you're better than her or prettier than her, or smarter than her, will not make you feel any better. You'll just be the Psycho girlfriend who is obsessesively stalking his ex on social media. It's foolish, they have nothing to do with you or your relationship, but yet you use your free time going over every crooked smile, every bad outfit. Though I can understand the insatiable desire to do it :/ we have all been there at some point, sad to say. Fact of the matter is, women are always in competition with their own sex, there will always be someone out there prettier than, smarter than you, have a better body than you, but hunny, there will never be another you and that's why he's with you and that's why he loves you❤
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