A breakup can be a really hard thing to get over, here are 5 ways to help you get back to happiness.
1. You cannot be friends with him,there is no way this is going to work, calling him, showing up to places he might be, keeping the texts he sent you. all of this needs to be erased completely from your life, get a box and fill it with all the stuff that reminds you of him. if a song comes on the radio that brings back memories, change it, you have to completely dedicate yourself to moving on, if you want to be happy.Delete his phone number, delete his texts, do not check his social network page, block him.dispose of everything.
2.Go out with all your closest girlfriends, do not stay in the house moping around, nothing is worse than being at home alone with a broken heart, that is just a prescription for complete depression. keep active, go to the gym always have something to do that keeps your mind working and off him.
3. If you happen to see him, go the other way, avoid him completely. you do not want to go up to him and start a conversation, that's a no no.This can make you feel a million times worse, it would be like starting over all again.You are still gonna have feelings for him, going up and talking to him will only bring the feelings flowing back in and you do not want that.
4.Do not let yourself go, go get your hair done, go get your nails done and go shopping. if you happen to run in to him, in a unavoidable situation, make sure your looking good.
5.Last but not least go on dates, see what else is out there, nothing beats a breakup, but a new relationship.
Break ups are often seen as a setback to one's happiness. But when one learns how to get over a break up, they will know that having a relationship is the key to happiness but there are many ways to be happy.
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