Teenage girls have too often gone down the wrong path because they didn't have a strong sense of value for themselves.
Teenage years can be the most confusing and hard times of a woman's life, during this age girls don't know the value of their bodies and their minds.Especially if grown up in a single parent household without a father or a strong father figure in the home, they tend to go elsewhere to get the attention and love they're not getting at home. Moving from relationship to relationship, sleeping around with different men, trying to fill that part of them that is missing.
Teenagers tend to live in the moment and consequences can sometimes seem non-existent to them. But the older a woman gets, she finds herself and realizes most the mistakes they made were avoidable. no parent can stop a child from making mistakes, but teaching them the right things and spending quality time with them will not do any harm. For parents it may seem awkward to talk to your child about sex,but if they don't learn it from home, where are they gonna learn it? Don't just tell them "don't have sex", explain to them why it is important to preserve their bodies for the right person who will respect, marry and love them.Time for the remix,Lets be real,every child will not stay away from sex,its just a fact.
Acknowledging this is just reality,teaching about the different sexually transmitted diseases and contraceptives is another way to go.Society has come a far way and most of our values have gone with the wind, but its up to parents to instill in their kids the right morals and values.Teenagers may not always listen, because this is such a defiant and experimental time in their lives, but this is the time they need the most guidance.It is impossible to never make a mistake,but really big ones can be avoided.
Teenagers tend to live in the moment and consequences can sometimes seem non-existent to them. But the older a woman gets, she finds herself and realizes most the mistakes they made were avoidable. no parent can stop a child from making mistakes, but teaching them the right things and spending quality time with them will not do any harm. For parents it may seem awkward to talk to your child about sex,but if they don't learn it from home, where are they gonna learn it? Don't just tell them "don't have sex", explain to them why it is important to preserve their bodies for the right person who will respect, marry and love them.Time for the remix,Lets be real,every child will not stay away from sex,its just a fact.
Acknowledging this is just reality,teaching about the different sexually transmitted diseases and contraceptives is another way to go.Society has come a far way and most of our values have gone with the wind, but its up to parents to instill in their kids the right morals and values.Teenagers may not always listen, because this is such a defiant and experimental time in their lives, but this is the time they need the most guidance.It is impossible to never make a mistake,but really big ones can be avoided.
thank you so much for writing this :)
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