He's just Not That Into You

Some women just want to be in a relationship and get married and live happily ever after, but they ignore the signs.

1.Women tend to be  more complicated than men, so we look for messages in everything a man does, the truth is a man doesn't really give mixed messages, if he doesn't call you after you gave him your number or after a first date, he's moved on to somebody else. If after a week he doesn't call, he isn't interested. Some women  make excuses as to why he hasn't called yet, "maybe this happened, maybe that happened." Nothing happened, he just doesn't wanna be with you, this can be tremendously hard to hear, especially if you liked the guy a lot. But its healthier to accept the obvious and move on.


2. So u met a guy and u probably text back and forth a few times a week, then all of a sudden he didn't get your text messages, then when you finally get a hold of him, the excuses start flowing in," oh i dunno what's wrong with my phone, i haven't seen any messages from you," or the " i didn't see any of your missed calls or voice mails". Men pull these cards regularly when they have no interest in a girl. He won't ever call you, but some women wanna hope it's something else, other than the obvious fact that, he's just not interested, or he has somebody else occupying his time.them  being men will not just come out and tell you he isn't into you, he'll just ignore you.


3.The I've been so busy card, there is no way he could be that busy where in one whole day, he didn't get even a 10 minute break. Any man tells you that, it is absolute bologna. if a guy is really into you, every chance he gets to hear your voice or see how you're doing, he'll take it.


4.The wondering eye, if your out with him and he keeps looking at other girls, this just means your not enough for him and he doesn't respect you enough to not do it. Some women tend to bypass this, in my experiences the guy is almost always going to end up cheating if he can't keep his eyes off other women. If a man shows that he doesn't care, he just doesn't care.


5. If he continuously talks about himself and not interested in anything you have to say about yourself. You will be talking then he just  buts in and tries to navigate the conversation back to the awesome person that he is. its like a mental thing, when a man just isn't into you he zones out. If you have to ask him on a regular basis what you said, honey he just isn't into you.


6.If a man doesn't let you know where he lives if you've been dating for over a month, he's not into you and doesn't introduce you to any of his closest friends, don't think this is gonna be a long term thing. He's thinking you're just for the moment.