Can a woman change a man?

 The life long question for women, we like the idea of being able to change a man, because having one who does the right things is just too boring, its like an adventure for us women, it brings us excitement. But in all truth, no woman can make a man change if he doesn't wanna be changed. If you met him as a player he will probably die a player. But we just love the idea of being able to say " I changed him." On the contrary though, some women can make a man change, if a man meets a woman and she makes him wanna change then he'll change, but forcing a man to change is not the way to go, they have gotta want to change, in their own time and in their own way.

 If forced they will probably do what you want them to do, for a while, then they go right back to their old ways.Its like forcing a drug addict to go to rehab when he isn't ready to get clean, he goes, then a month later he's back on drugs, He's gotta really want to change. Its up to you though if you wanna put up with his mess until he decides to change, if you think he's worth it. If a man truly loves you, he will change for you.

The more years and experience he has acquired the harder it will be for him to change his bad habits, sometimes you get so overwhelmed and tired of his habits, when he's finally ready to change, you've already checked out. If years pass and you see no changes being made and things just keep getting worse, its not gonna work, just leave.

If you have young kids and your thinking about their well being and your absolutely miserable, leave before they remember both of you being together, the older they get, the harder it is for them. Life is too short for you to spend it unhappy with someone you see no change happening with. This may not be easy to do, but nothing in life is easy to do, if in the long run it will be worth it. Faith goes a long way and then there's common sense.