The fears of Starting a New Relationship

let me start off by saying, there is no better way to get over an old relationship than by starting a new one, it takes away a lot of the pain and hurt. people often say, "I'm emotionally unavailable" or "I'm not ready", when will you know when your ready? life is about taking chances. Its about time people face the fact that men were made for women and women were made for men, we need each other, its just a fact. When we don't have one we miss them, because that's how it's suppose to be.

 Going into a new relationship can be somewhat scary, especially if you came out of one where your partner was a total jerk. It can  make you feel a little doubtful not knowing what to expect. some people stay single for years, afraid to step out and take a chance. They get lost in the theory of "what ifs"..." what if I get hurt", "what if he turns out to be a jerk" you will never know until you make a move. Women especially tend to over think things and worry, the best thing to do is to live in the moment, see how things progress, take things slow.

 There are four parts to a relationship: dating, courtship, engagement and marriage, if each step gets time to develop the relationship will turn out extremely well. Get to know someone first, go on a couple dates, see what the person is all about. after this part then a commitment can be made, whether this person is someone you can see yourself having a relationship with and make sure the feeling is mutual. make sure this gives you opt amount of time to get to know the person really well, so after the engagement, there should not be a long wait period before the marriage. I always say, if you don't know if you want to marry me after a year then it will not work, if your with me and I'm everything u want, what's stopping you from making that step.